I want to interview you! Don’t worry, I’ve done this before. And it should be painless…
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I really think some of the best stories come from everyday people. If you are living single and loving/hating/or confused by this new relationship of a life lived unattached or if you are someone on a voyage of searching out a mate, like I am right now, contact me below and we can conduct the interview comfortably via email. If you want to remain anonymous, that’s cool. But I would at least like to be able to list the town you live and/or your occupation so people can identify with you as an actual real person!
I want to interview single parents, singles with no kids, divorcés and divorcees. Sure this blog presents my life and opinions, but I also want to tell a story through your words. Please use this contact form below to leave me a message and it will be emailed to me directly. Thanks everyone who responds!
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Hi there,
Well i know you just want to do an interview but i thought i would give u my opinion of being single .. right here … right now… take it or leave it… lol
Been single for about 6 or so months now. Yeh i know it doesnt sound very long at all … but im telling you at times, it can seem like life is passing by really slowing. Or maybe thats just because you have nothing else to preoccupy your mind with. Im still deciding.
Im young, only 20 and so i think its socially acceptable to be unattached at this age. I think there comes a certain age, when u say that ur single and people jsut stare at u .. like your from a different planet … glad im not there yet … although a lot of my friends all have boyfriends, girlfreinds, husbands and wives, which i find extremely annoying.
Even though ive been single for 6months i only mean that in that i havent been dating anyone steady for those six months … exclusively anyways.
Course there are dates, course there are the guys of the month .. but nothing that gives you the butterflies and makes u feel like your falling in love or you are in it.
I think being single and how you feel about it … Is like a wave, you have your ups and downs. Or maybe thats just associated with being female.
i think at times, being single is the best thing in the world, you have total and absolute freedom to do anything you want! Your independant and you only have to rely on yourself. Its great .. you can go out and have a good time, flirt with as many people as you want and not have the burden of thinking about the next time you are going to have a fight with ur hubby. Or think about what he is doing at that point in time.
At other times, its loney. you see couples and your like shite i wish that was me. Wouldnt it be awesome to have someone that you can trust so much, you can share your inner most thoughts, who is there when you need them to be
i dont doubt that we are meant to be spend the rest of our lives with that special someone. i truly believe that everyone is meant to find that special someone.
i hear all these modern new age women, who define themselves as not needing a man to take care of them, whether that be emtionally or finanially or whateva. But that is the biggest load of BS ever. I dont know who they are trying to fool, or how badly they have been burnt to even think like that. the truth is that we all need to have somebody to share the human experience with. It really is that simple.
so sorry if this was a little scattered, but i just poured out how i feel at the time.
so my thoughts on being single, well i think that while you are single, cherish that time that u have with yourself. Learn about yourself as much as possible, so that you can take those lessons and apply them to a new relationship which will be much more fulfilling than the last, because of it..
cheers
Hot Alpha Female
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