So it’s day two of my officially being a member of eHarmony, against my “better” judgement. So far my matches have come from mostly California. Is that a sign? Do I need to just move to land a man? Anyway, if you are unfamiliar with the eHarmony process, there is this “guided communication” they put you through. It’s like eight steps or something. The first step is sending these five preset questions that you pick. They have multiple choice answers or the match can decide to write their own answer.
I’ve connected with one guy who is a local at least. It says he’s an entrepreneur. I’ve heard time and time again when someone says they are self-employed or an entrepreneur it means they are truly unemployed. Is that true? So I picked a question about work for him to answer. I’m not sure I was convinced by the response that he is currently working. Could this be my problem all along? That I’m too picky? Me? Nah.
Then there is a solider in San Diego. He has a photo up of himself in Iraq. Hey ladies out there with soldier boys: Do I want to strike up a long distance gig with a guy who may deploy in a month? This is really hard.
I’d say yes to the solider only if you can handle long bouts of being seperated… Ive been dating my bf whose a solider for 6 years.. long distance this whole time.. the seperations suck, but he is worth it. Might be fun to give it a try =)
Well. I haven’t heard from the guy since answering his questions. Hummm.
I don’t know where you’re located but I’ve been told that California and New York are the places for single, educated, openminded women to go so maybe that’s why so many Cali men are writing you! Is there a pot of gold (aka men) over yander?
If the man is black entrepreneur most likely means unepmployed.
If the man is black – entrepreneur most likely means unemployed.
Sorry, now I can’t spell…lol